More committed to your lunch than your Girlfriend

Alright, it’s time I rant about this subject.

I don’t know if it’s just me or if there are many women in the same position but for some reason unknown to me, I’d say 80% of the men who have shown interest in me over the last year have had a girlfriend. Or they had a girlfriend when they first started talking to me. Or they are “single” but their facebook says that they’re in a relationship. Or who knows but I think you all get the point. I seem to be a magnet for unavailable men. Now I don’t know if I put out some sort of “home wrecker” vibe but I can assure you, I do not intend to wreck any homes.

I guess it has really started to sink in as time goes on how prevalent it is. I’m not going to get into all of the details or anything but I have started to see how so many men will push their limits while they have girlfriends. I have said before that it is the biggest joke of our time that men have been able to convince women that being viewed as a sex object is flattering. It’s not! Or at least not to me. And there is always an excuse as to why they are able to “sext” with women as if that’s not cheating. Like asking for naked pictures of girls you know is somehow okay. Why on earth would sending dirty texts and pictures while you’re in a relationship be okay??

I’m not claiming to be a saint in any way, nor am I saying I’m completely innocent in my past. But I have been approached by men numerous times who are clearly not acting as if they are committed to someone. I have seen men more committed to what they are eating for lunch than their girlfriends. When did this happen in society? I mean, infidelity has been around forever. But is it just me or is it becoming more and more prevalent and even to an extent, accepted?